Explain the current family situation

Start with marriage and separation dates, where each spouse lives, and whether there are children or existing court proceedings. Tell the lawyer about any paperwork already filed or served. Texas has residency rules for divorce filings; moving to Dallas does not alone answer where a case belongs. Other states, prior orders, or a spouse living elsewhere can add questions. Give the lawyer the actual history so jurisdiction and venue can be considered before you rely on a particular form or filing plan.

Build a financial snapshot

List income sources, ordinary household expenses, accounts, real estate, vehicles, retirement benefits, business interests, and debts. Add approximate balances and identify the source of each estimate. Gather statements you can lawfully access, tax returns, deeds, loan papers, and any marital agreement. Note property owned before the marriage or received as a gift or inheritance. Texas distinguishes community and separate property, but account titles and informal descriptions do not settle every classification question. Ask counsel what additional records are needed.

Separate immediate needs from final goals

Housing, access to funds, childcare, insurance, and communication may need attention before final arrangements can be reached. Describe those needs in practical terms: which bill is due, where a child attends school, or what work schedule must be accommodated. Bring any current orders and ask what they require. Do not transfer property, empty accounts, or change an existing parenting arrangement based on general online information. The lawyer needs to consider the facts and any orders that already apply.

Describe agreements and disagreements precisely

If both spouses agree on something, state exactly what has been discussed and whether it is written down. Agreement to divorce is different from agreement on every issue. List unresolved questions separately, including property, debts, parenting, and support. Ask whether negotiation, mediation, or another process might fit the circumstances. A predictable timetable or simple form may not suit a case with missing financial information, coercion, or disputed terms. Tell the lawyer about safety concerns privately and early.

Leave with a clear working arrangement

Ask which tasks the lawyer would handle, which records you should collect next, and how fees would be charged. Clarify whether the consultation includes document review and whether a later engagement would cover hearings, negotiation, and final paperwork. Identify the next date that requires action and the safest way for the office to communicate with you. Keep your questions in priority order so urgent matters are discussed before the meeting ends. If there is immediate danger, contact emergency services.

Take to your consultation

A short preparation list

  • Marriage, residence, and separation history
  • Financial statements and a basic monthly budget
  • Existing agreements, court papers, and orders
  • Your immediate housing, parenting, and safety concerns

Sources consulted: Texas Family Code, Chapters 3 and 6; Texas State Law Library, divorce self-representation information. Reviewed September 29, 2026.